Relationship Advice - Relationship Advice For Men and Women

Relationship advice is different for men and women, but it really does not matter if you are a woman or a man. The bottom line is this: men and women both have needs in a relationship, but to determine what the other needs, you must first learn how the other thinks. Let me explain.

You need to understand each other and how each other thinks in order to live a happy life. See, you are at the age where you do what you feel is best, what feels good, and what you think should be done at the time. If you are lucky, you have a good family, a mother that loves you and a dad that will give you some help and advice. If you are very lucky, you have a family you can talk to, a family that can communicate, and you are smart enough to listen to them.

See I've made relationship mistakes, not once but twice, some mistakes I've made ten times over. I wasn't one of the lucky ones with family to support me, no loving mother, and no dad to give me good advice, nothing. So I screwed it up all by myself. I also have nobody to give credit to but myself for my few successful accomplishments. So when picking your life partner, well I learned it's not as easy as you think, in fact it can be hardest decision and the most important you will ever make.

I'm nothing special, just a guy that sees the young people of this country, and all over the world for that matter, needing to know certain things, mainly because two of you male idiots are going to try to have relationships with and marry my daughters someday. I wish you luck. They are smarter than you, more cultured than you, and all around much better than you in almost every way. When I think about the differences between men and women, I realize that God has a much bigger sense of humor than we can ever imagine.

Since the dawn of time man has had to deal with woman, and woman has had to deal with man. We are almost like separate species. We look different, we think different, we act different, we sound different. Men are stronger, women are smarter. I can hear it now, the blatant cry of some hurt man yelling "what do you mean she is smarter than I am???" Well, in fact it is true, she has much more capacity to learn then you do. It's a fact, stop whining about it and let's move on. You don't hear women yelling about men being stronger do you?

Anyway, since I am a man I have a tendency to look at life through a man's eyes. But I also have two daughters and an affinity for women, and that helps me look through their eyes too. That's why I think specific relationship advice should be given to women so they can understand men and specific advice should be given to men so they can understand women. We are different creatures so we must think differently in order to live a happy life together.

Monte Jamison, Relationship Guide

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The approach to relationship advice for men and women is different because we are different creatures, but men and women need the same advice if they want a successful relationship: Learn how the other thinks. I can teach you how to do that. Click here for the relationship advice you need no matter what gender you are.

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